Review and Reflect: Better Decision-Making Through C.A.R.E. — #reviewandreflect

Review and Reflect: Better Decision-Making Through C.A.R.E. — #reviewandreflect

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This is TheSchoolHouse302’s monthly #reviewandreflect, wrapping up our focus on Decision-Making.

Our Review and Reflect series embraces the powerful sentiment from Soren Kierkegaard: “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” Throughout this post, we take a deep dive into our leadership content so that you can develop the skills you need to lead better and grow faster.

Skills I need to develop for improved decision-making…

If you’re reading this post, which we are very grateful that you are, you probably made about five decisions just to get to this point. You may have asked yourself, should I read it on my phone or laptop? At my desk or on my couch? Should I grab a cup of coffee first? Will I take some notes or just screenshot what really jumps out at me? The point is that we constantly make decisions every second. Some of them are significant and critically important, while others are common and ordinary. Regardless of the type of decision, we make over 30,000 of them per day.

Because we are rapidly deciding on one thing or another all the time, we need to establish the right environment to improve our decision-making skills and align them to our core values and purpose. That may sound simple, given that we are the ones making the decisions for ourselves, but we know how easily influenced we can be by friends, co-workers, social media, and marketing techniques.

For stronger alignment with your values, we ask you to use C.A.R.E. when making decisions. It’s a formula to ensure better decision-making in life and work. 

CARE

#1. Core Values–If someone were to ask you, “what are your Core Values” could you answer them clearly and succinctly? If not, don’t read another word before identifying them.

“If one does not know to which port one is sailing, no wind is favorable.” ~ Seneca

#2. Automate Routines–If someone were to ask you, “what does your morning routine look like that sets you up for success” could you tell them? If not, stop reading and identify what your morning routine will be from this day forward.

“Either you run the day, or the day runs you.” ~ Jim Rohn

#3. Rely on a Trusted Few–If someone were to ask you, “who do you really trust and can seek their wise counsel when needed” could you readily identify them? Take a minute, grab a pen, and write their names down, then call them and let them know how much you appreciate their advice.

“We need people in our lives with whom we can be as open as possible. To have real conversations with people may seem like such a simple, obvious suggestion, but it involves courage and risk.” ~ Thomas Moore

#4. Evaluate the Impact–If someone were to ask you, “how do you know if the decisions you make are any good” could you show them the results? If not, take a few minutes right now and evaluate if a decision you recently made turned out the way you had expected.

“Reflective thinking turns our experience into insight.” ~ John Maxwell

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Wherever you find yourself on the scale for each area, we encourage you to immerse yourself into some powerful literature to lead better and grow faster in the area of decision-making.

Great Leaders Are Avid Readers

Review: In our #readthisseries we featured practical books that offer actionable information to improve decision-making.

Our first recommendation is The one thing: The surprisingly simple truth about extraordinary results. If you’re tired of thinking about what needs to be done, and you are ready for real results, read this!

Our second recommendation is from Doug Reeves, Leading change in your school: How to conquer myths, build commitment, and get results. This is a terrific book for school and district leaders who are ready to lead the necessary change in their organization.

Our final recommendation is Leading with focus: Elevating the essentials for school and district improvement. What we truly respect about Mike Schmoker is that he cuts to the chase and provides real examples. If you don’t have a lot of time but want to read incredible stories about real schools, pick this up!

Let us know if these great reads change your leadership practices and deliver real results.

Who should I follow…

What does an expert have to say about decision making? Toni Faddis is the real deal. We truly appreciate her book, The Ethical Line: 10 Leadership Strategies for Ethical Decision-Making. Strategy #6, Unifying Around a Collective Vision, is just one aspect that all leaders need to read. She walks you through an organizational values audit that is quite telling.

Toni Faddis

Action: Throughout this month during our Three Minute Challenges we asked you to take decisive action to improve your level of C.A.R.E.

Our TPA: A Framework for Growth Through Reflection, is a powerful tool for personal development and growth. Reflect on the self-assessment you just completed and identify those areas that you need to develop with focus.

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That’s our #review&reflect for decision-making. Take a look back to take a step forward.

TheSchoolHouse302 is about getting to simple and maximizing effective research-based strategies that empower individuals to lead better and grow faster.

Please let us know how our leadership posts are working for you, what you are reading to improve yourself, and your thoughts on leadership and growth here on our blog and Twitter. Follow our #onethingseries podcast on iTunes and our #readthisseries on YouTube.

Joe & T.J.

#TheThreeMinuteChallenge: Defining Your Core Values

#TheThreeMinuteChallenge: Defining Your Core Values

Core Values Decisions, decisions, decisions. Everyday we are faced with countless situations that require us to make a decision. The wild aspect of decision-making, that we need to wrap our minds around, is that many of the decisions we make are influenced by undetected external inputs that range from color schemes to how questions are worded. Erik Qualman’s mind blowing socialnomics 2017 video reports that 93% of our purchasing decisions are influenced by social media alone. Who would have thought that George Orwell’s 1984 notion of Big Brother would manifest in the form of a Facebook post. Just being aware that many of our decisions are often hijacked by our surroundings is precisely why the first part of our decision-making model forces us to review and rely upon our core values. Before making any decisions, we must always ask ourselves what we truly believe in and why. Writing down your own core values is a pivotal first step for a structured and more effective decision-making process. There’s no doubt that you have already considered your values as an exercise–in your head or even on paper. But reviewing them, articulating them often, and keeping them in written format anchors them for use. Prior to enumerating your values, though, we embrace the notion that everyone should have a personal vision statement. Below you’ll find our personal vision statements. The goal is to be very clear about your vision and values (V2) so that you can refer to them on a daily basis. The more you do so and the more readily you can retrieve them in written format, the more likely you are to make decisions that align to them. The greater the alignment, the greater your own personal harmony.  We share are our personal vision statements below:

T.J.: To construct meaning in a simple way and to share learning as a tool for serving the needs of others so that the resulting power of knowledge brings family, friends, followers, and fellow leaders together with a pure acceptance for one another and with lasting positive impact on the world.

Joe: To pursue life’s greatest gifts for myself and for those I love, lead, and follow by unearthing my own personal strengths, by finding joy in simple pleasures, and by loving without reservation.

Great leaders keep their vision and values on the WIRE
  • Write out your personal vision statements. Share it with us online, be bold! 
  • Identify and write down 3 to 5 core values that support your vision.
    • Share your values with a person who you trust and ask for feedback.
  • Reflect each day about the use of your vision and values for decision-making. 
    • Read them in the AM to start the day, use them for decisions throughout the day, and reflect before bed that you stayed true to them as a leader. 
  • Evaluate your vision and values frequently. 
    • Put your vision statement and core values to the test each quarter by revising them to match your growth as a leader.
Stay tuned for more challenges, reflection questions, leadership models, podcasts, and more by following dereka206.sg-host.com. It’s our job to curate, synthesize, and communicate so that you can lead better and grow faster. In a world plagued by nothing but noise, we help you by getting to simple. TheSchoolHouse302 is about getting to simple by maximizing effective research-based strategies that empower individuals to lead better and grow faster. Joe & T.J.
Season 1, Episode 1 of FocusED with Guest Connie Hamilton

Season 1, Episode 1 of FocusED with Guest Connie Hamilton

Season 1, Episode 1 of FocusED with Guest Connie Hamilton

 

This is Season 1, Episode 1 of FocusED and we feature guest, Connie Hamilton, with a focus on questioning techniques and a culture of inquiry in schools. You’ll hear her address how she frames the work of Hacking Questions and much, much more. We hope you enjoy.

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Connie Hamilton is the co-author of Hacking Homework and the author of the new book Hacking Questions: 11 Answers That Create a Culture of Inquiry in Your Classroom. She is a consultant and presenter and recently served as curriculum director in Saranac Community Schools in the state of Michigan. 

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Thanks for listening to FocusED, an educational leadership podcast brought to you by TheSchoolHouse302 @ dereka206.sg-host.com. 

 

FocusED is your educational leadership podcast where our mission is to dissect a particular focus for teachers and school leaders so that you can learn to lead better and grow faster in your school or district with more knowledge, better understanding, and clear direction on what to do next. 


Each episode we invite expert guests to join us for a live recording of the podcast, which happens in Delaware. All Delaware educators are invited to attend.

 

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